Friend Zone

From A Friend

The only reason someone would use a bullshit buzzword to describe a situation in which someone else is not attracted to them sexually or romantically but enjoys their friendship, is if they felt entitled to that individual's love/sex/what have you. Or maybe if they don't like themselves enough to be okay when someone doesn't want to fuck them or date them.... so they have to make up excuses.The concept of being "friendzoned" is absurd. What extra bothers me about this is that it's typically gendered. We tell women "he's just not that into you." We tell men, "awhhhh dude bro, you got friendzooooned. all those hours of actting liiike a guud persson 'n' listening n pretennding to care about anything but thaat puss = LOST, dude." or "aaaaaah you got FRIENDZONED!!! "THEY" never like the nice guys! Nice guys finish last! What a dumb bitch!" 

Friendzoning isn't a thing. The men I'm friends with? I didn't pursue sexually because I didn't want to. My feelings for them manifested in a Platonic way. If one of my male friends tried to change our relationship, and I said, oh no, dude, we're friends, I have not "friendzoned" them. I've clearly defined the thing I feel and the relationship we have. If a male friend's friendship with me was a ruse to try to get inside my vagina? That friend is a fucking asshole, and not a friend really. 

In short, you didn't get friendzoned, you're just not attractive to that person. Deal with it. Find your league. Be less of an entitled, whiny, creep, and maybe a woman will like you.